Friday, January 8, 2010


Okay, I need to vent about three of my online dating experiences in just a matter of one week...I find myself repeating these phrases a lot when it comes to my dating life...

You've got to be fucking kidding me?!

One guy, who I initially ignored since he wasn't really my type decides to email me a second time with these few words: "do you have cute feet?" Now if you didn't interest me before, what makes you think asking a fetish question would peak my interest all of a sudden. Seriously?!

One guy, who I mistakenly gave my number to, thinking he seemed normal online, immediately started by stalk texting me with inappropriate crap and leaving voicemail messages. When I don't reply to his desperate attempts, he asks me if I'm alive? Seriously?! WTF?! If I keep ignoring him, maybe he'll think I'm not. One more text message and I will tell him to stop wasting his time.

One guy, who I end up meeting for drinks, is a lawyer...but only I would end up with probably the only lawyer who was a former police officer AND who used to work with my ex-husband. Seriously?! WTF? You've got to be fucking kidding me?! - for those that don't know, my ex-husband is a police officer and I don't want to discriminate but I'm not interested in dating the "civil servant" types. Even though, those seem to be the only types I attract. This guy however, beyond his clear job occupation flaws, loved to bully the conversation, talk over me, and tell me one cop story after another. Been there, done that, no thanks again!!

FM dating L!

The good thing is I'm in no hurry. I enjoy being single and wouldn't ruin that for just anyone.



septembermom said...

You did have some bad luck with the dating scene this week! I'm glad to hear that you're not letting any of these dating setbacks bring you down. Your son is so adorable in those pictures :)

sol said...

Thanks Kelly! My son is even more adorable in person :)

When it comes to dating, I think I don't care enough to let it set me back. I'm very happy with my life!! I don't need a man to make me happy, give me money, or to complete me. If it's going to happen, it will. Regardless, I'm living and loving life. :)

Anonymous said...

I'm glad I am happily single. Seems like a lot of work. Reading your post, I don't think I'm missing out on too much. This would make a good article or book on dating. I see Dr. Phil in your future.

Your prince will be waiting in the shadow of a sunset somewhere on this vast land. Keep looking and good luck.

Deboshree said...

That's the kind of woman I like!!
Like seriously??!! These guys are mad! Not to mention totally desperate!!
Hehe..well done and enjoy your singledom for as long as it lasts!
By the way, I couldn't understand what you wrote in my blog comment. The language I mean..:-(


Sara Louise said...

Wish I could say I was surprised. Before I met the Boyfriend I had my fair share of weirdness. Safe to say, I've been to the circus and seen the freak show.
But what's up with the 'do you have cute feet'??!! Sometimes I think men think that they are being charming when they say crap like this.

sol said...

I'm happily single!! and open to love whenever it finds me!!

Jeff P. said...

I think it is a valid question. Do you have cute feet? :-D

sol said...

Jeffy-poo!!! What do you think?!


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