tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-46744437244392305.post6788734040259768803..comments2019-12-31T07:37:21.977-05:00Comments on the window to my sol: Stepmomsolhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03320194287316150796noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-46744437244392305.post-18590517357313223532009-04-09T14:27:00.000-04:002009-04-09T14:27:00.000-04:00Thanks heather...I assume this is the "parks" heat...Thanks heather...I assume this is the "parks" heather. I'm not as worried as I was back when I wrote this. I think they have a good enough relationship where I don't have to worry. He also has a half-sister now. She is one and I'm interested to see the dynamics of all this unfold. I told Mathew's dad that the sister is always welcomed in my home. so we'll see. I think for the most part, I'm handling it like a mature grown up...yes, I put my big-girl panties on!solhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03320194287316150796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-46744437244392305.post-18369110590420293622009-04-09T11:31:00.000-04:002009-04-09T11:31:00.000-04:00For some reason I am reading your blogs backwards,...For some reason I am reading your blogs backwards, but it's nice. I just want to say that as stepmom's are touchy at best. i don't know how you feel about it now, but I want to assure you (as I have already had 2 and probably will have another one soon enough) that at no age or time in life will 'she' ever be better, more beautiful or more important than mommy. Trust me, it's so much better for Matthew if he at least likes her or gets along with her and that relationship will always only be friendly, or like an auntie at most. But if they are at war, or if she does not love him it's the worst torture you could ever watch your son go through and he will forever wonder if his daddy loves him enough. This all sounds so hard and I commend you on your bravery and self-expression. I can only hope to be so brave!HC Parkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17133090135283703001noreply@blogger.com